Communication is such a big part of every one’s life.  No one can escape from communicating, especially from communicating with our self.  Are you aware that you’re dialoguing with yourself constantly?  Your “Impostors” and your “Authentic Soul” are always debating ideas, facts, the decisions you make.

Love is what got me even interested in this topic.  I happened to meet a guy who I found difficult to communicate with about anything that was “sensitive.”  We went to a therapist; a good one but needed a system in place to help us on a daily basis.  Not just a referee with insight a couple times a year.

When we came up with names for our King/Queen “Impostor(s)” and our secondary Impostors, our arguments diminished, we had a handle on who we were talking with and understanding that “talking” was pointless because “we” weren’t actually present, out Impostor were so what’s the point of listening to them argue.  When we really got that concept, we gained more compassion for each other and gave a lot more slack. Eventually, it became “fun” communicating even when we had different points of views or moods because of how we handled it.  We were both so impressed with our new skills.  We got to discover who was present and we’d address that person.  So our daily petty fights were no longer needed.  They were resolved before even happening.